First, talk to God, then to any man about your challenges (and that is if you need to).
Often, we want to help others, but we are incapable because we lack the ability or the means to help. However, God can do all things.
Jesus said that “with God, nothing shall be impossible. So, trust God to overcome those challenges and those lingering problems.
God will use different means to help you or send help to you, including man, but trust Him first and wait for Him to do so.
Man often fails to help, but we know that the supreme being is incapable of failure.
While trust in any man that can disappoint. While would you talk to any man about your troubles when you can speak to God?
Sometimes, people want to help but cannot often do so.
Your help is God, who has everlasting strength.